Experts told why being alone at 30 is not scary, but very good, otvprim.ru reports.
1. You have more time to focus on your career
At 30, you have an idea of who you are, says relationship expert Rory Sassun. This means that you have a pretty clear understanding of what you want in terms of your career, and being alone ensures that you have time to get busy with your goals.
2. You are more mature and less tolerant of drama.
“Men and women are mature enough by the age of 30,” says relationship expert James Anderson. “They are more mature and less tolerant of drama.”
3. You can distinguish between sex and love
This skill, often developed with age, saves you tons of time and energy. “At 30, we’re less impulsive and less obsessed with sex,” says relationship expert Karen Eldad. But this does not mean that you are not interested in sex at all, it just now you see more and deeper.
4. You know which “calls” you shouldn’t miss
By the time you reach 30, you have already identified for yourself all the “red flags” and can see them from a kilometer away.
5. You are more experienced in bed.
You also know what you like and are not willing to settle for less.
6. You can travel anywhere at any time
In your free time, you can literally do whatever you want. And when you’re single at 30, you can choose any destination without consulting anyone else.
7. You care less about what others think
Of course, it still annoys you when your parents ask why you are not married yet, but at 30 you are less likely to take it personally. What others think about your status in terms of relationships doesn’t matter. Gone are the days when peer judgment influenced you.